{"id":28534,"date":"2017-01-21T09:34:54","date_gmt":"2017-01-21T02:34:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/?p=28534"},"modified":"2017-01-22T16:52:26","modified_gmt":"2017-01-22T09:52:26","slug":"makna-yang-benar-tentang-ayat-poligami","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/?p=28534","title":{"rendered":"MAKNA YANG BENAR TENTANG AYAT POLIGAMI"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>MAKNA YANG BENAR TENTANG AYAT POLIGAMI<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Allah Ta\u2019ala berfirman:<\/p>\n<p>\ufed3\u064e\ufe8e\ufee7\u0652\ufedc\u0650\ufea4\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufe8d \ufee3\u064e\ufe8e \ufec3\u064e\ufe8e\ufe8f\u064e \ufedf\u064e\ufedc\u064f\ufee2\u0652 \ufee3\u0650\ufee6\u064e \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee8\u0651\u0650\ufeb4\u064e\ufe8e\ufe80\u0650 \ufee3\u064e\ufe9c\u0652\ufee8\u064e\ufef0 \ufeed\u064e\ufe9b\u064f\ufee0\u064e\ufe8e\ufe99\u064e \ufeed\u064e\ufead\u064f\ufe91\u064e\ufe8e\ufec9\u064e \ufed3\u064e\ufe88\u0650\ufee5\u0652 \ufea7\u0650\ufed4\u0652\ufe98\u064f\ufee2\u0652 \ufe83\u064e\ufedf\u0651\u064e\ufe8e \ufe97\u064e\ufecc\u0652\ufeaa\u0650\ufedf\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufe8d \ufed3\u064e\ufeee\u064e\ufe8d\ufea3\u0650\ufeaa\u064e\ufe93\u064b \ufe83\u064e\ufeed\u0652 \ufee3\u064e\ufe8e \ufee3\u064e\ufee0\u064e\ufedc\u064e\ufe96\u0652 \ufe83\u064e\ufef3\u0652\ufee4\u064e\ufe8e\ufee7\u064f\ufedc\u064f\ufee2\u0652 \ufeab\u064e\ufedf\u0650\ufeda\u064e \ufe83\u064e\ufea9\u0652\ufee7\u064e\ufef0 \ufe83\u064e\ufedf\u0651\u064e\ufe8e \ufe97\u064e\ufecc\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufedf\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufe8d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNikahilah wanita-wanita yang kalian senangi sebanyak dua, atau tiga, atau empat. Namun jika kalian khawatir tidak bisa berlaku adil, maka nikahilah satu wanita saja, atau gaulilah budak-budak wanita yang kalian miliki. Yang demikian itu lebih dekat (mudah) bagi kalian untuk tidak berbuat zhalim.\u201d (QS. An-Nisa\u2019: 3)<\/p>\n<p>Tentang ayat di atas, ada yang memaknai seperti berikut:<\/p>\n<p>\ufed3\u064e\ufe8e\ufee7\u0652\ufedc\u0650\ufea4\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufe8d \ufee3\u064e\ufe8e \ufec3\u064e\ufe8e\ufe8f\u064e \ufedf\u064e\ufedc\u064f\ufee2\u0652 \ufee3\u0650\ufee6\u064e \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee8\u0651\u0650\ufeb4\u064e\ufe8e\ufe80\u0650 \ufee3\u064e\ufe9c\u0652\ufee8\u064e\ufef0 \ufeed\u064e\ufe9b\u064f\ufee0\u064e\ufe8e\ufe99\u064e \ufeed\u064e\ufead\u064f\ufe91\u064e\ufe8e\ufec9\u064e \ufed3\u064e\ufe88\u0650\ufee5\u0652 \ufea7\u0650\ufed4\u0652\ufe98\u064f\ufee2\u0652 \ufe83\u064e\ufedf\u0651\u064e\ufe8e \ufe97\u064e\ufecc\u0652\ufeaa\u0650\ufedf\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufe8d \ufed3\u064e\ufeee\u064e\ufe8d\ufea3\u0650\ufeaa\u064e\ufe93\u064b \ufe83\u064e\ufeed\u0652 \ufee3\u064e\ufe8e \ufee3\u064e\ufee0\u064e\ufedc\u064e\ufe96\u0652 \ufe83\u064e\ufef3\u0652\ufee4\u064e\ufe8e\ufee7\u064f\ufedc\u064f\ufee2\u0652 \ufeab\u064e\ufedf\u0650\ufeda\u064e \ufe83\u064e\ufea9\u0652\ufee7\u064e\ufef0 \ufe83\u064e\ufedf\u0651\u064e\ufe8e \ufe97\u064e\ufecc\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufedf\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufe8d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNikahilah wanita-wanita yang kalian senangi sebanyak dua, atau tiga, atau empat. Namun jika kalian khawatir tidak bisa berlaku adil, maka nikahilah satu wanita saja, atau gaulilah budak-budak wanita yang kalian miliki. Yang demikian itu lebih dekat bagi kalian untuk tidak menjadi miskin.\u201d (QS. An-Nisa\u2019: 3)<\/p>\n<p>Jadi, maksud orang yang memaknakan seperti ini adalah: dengan berpoligami menjadi sebab agar orang tidak menjadi miskin, dan justru merupakan sebab datangnya rezeki.<\/p>\n<p>Barangsiapa yang memperhatikan makna yang kedua dengan seksama, pasti dia akan menjumpai kejanggalan.<\/p>\n<p>Maka untuk untuk lebih jelasnya bagaimana makna yang benar tentang ayat ini, berikut penjelasan sebagian ulama:<\/p>\n<p>Asy-Syaikh Muhammad Nashiruddin al-Albany rahimahullah berkata dalam Silsilah ash-Shahihah jilid 7 hlm. 675-676 hadits no. 3222:<\/p>\n<p>\u0663\u0662\u0662\u0662. \ufed3\ufef2 \ufed7\ufeee\ufedf\ufeea \ufe97\ufecc\ufe8e\ufedf\ufef0: \u200f(\ufeab\u064e\u0670\ufedf\u0650\ufeda\u064e \ufe83\u064e\ufea9\u0652\ufee7\u064e\ufef0\u0670 \ufe83\u064e\ufedf\u064e\u0651\ufe8e \ufe97\u064e\ufecc\u064f\ufeee\ufedf\u064f\ufeee\ufe8d)\u060c \ufed7\ufe8e\ufedd: \ufe83\ufee5 \ufefb<br \/>\n\ufe97\ufea0\ufeee\ufead\u064f\ufeed\ufe8d\u200f)<\/p>\n<p>\ufe83\ufea7\ufeae\ufe9f\ufeea \ufe8d\ufe91\ufee6 \ufea3\ufe92\ufe8e\ufee5 \ufed3\ufef2 &#8220;\ufebb\ufea4\ufef4\ufea4\ufeea&#8221; \u200f(\ufead\ufed7\ufee2 \u0661\u0667\u0663\u0660 \u2013 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee4\ufeee\ufe8d\ufead\ufea9\u200f)\u060c \ufeed\ufe8d\ufe91\ufee6 \ufe83\ufe91\ufef2 \ufea3\ufe8e\ufe97\ufee2 \ufed3\ufef2 &#8220;\ufe8d\ufedf\ufe98\ufed4\ufeb4\ufef4\ufeae&#8221; \u200f(\u0662\/\u0661\u0660\u0664\/\u0662) \ufee3\ufee6 \ufec3\ufeae\ufed5 \ufecb\ufee6 \ufecb\ufe92\ufeaa\ufe8d\ufedf\ufeae\ufea3\ufee4\ufee6 \ufe91\ufee6 \ufe87\ufe91\ufeae\ufe8d\ufeeb\ufef4\ufee2: \ufea3\ufeaa\ufe9b\ufee8\ufe8e \ufee3\ufea4\ufee4\ufeaa \ufe91\ufee6 \ufeb7\ufecc\ufef4\ufe90 \ufecb\ufee6 \ufecb\ufee4\ufeae \ufe91\ufee6 \ufee3\ufea4\ufee4\ufeaa \ufe8d\ufedf\ufecc\u064f\ufee4\u064e\ufeae\ufef1 \ufecb\ufee6 \ufeeb\ufeb8\ufe8e\ufee1 \ufe91\ufee6 \ufecb\ufeae\ufeed\ufe93 \ufecb\ufee6 \ufe83\ufe91\ufef4\ufeea \ufecb\ufee6 \ufecb\ufe8e\ufe8b\ufeb8\ufe94 \ufecb\ufee6 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee8\ufe92\ufef2 \ufebb\ufee0\ufef0 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee0\ufeea \ufecb\ufee0\ufef4\ufeea \ufeed\ufeb3\ufee0\ufee2 \ufed3\ufef2 \ufed7\ufeee\ufedf\ufeea&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Tentang firman Allah Ta\u2019ala:<\/p>\n<p>\ufeab\u064e\u0670\ufedf\u0650\ufeda\u064e \ufe83\u064e\ufea9\u0652\ufee7\u064e\ufef0\u0670 \ufe83\u064e\ufedf\u064e\u0651\ufe8e \ufe97\u064e\ufecc\u064f\ufeee\ufedf\u064f\ufeee\ufe8d.<\/p>\n<p>Beliau (Rasulullah) bersabda:<\/p>\n<p>\u0623\u064e\u0646 \u0644\u0627 \u062a\u064e\u062c\u064f\u0648\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0627.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Agar kalian tidak berbuat zhalim (tidak adil).&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dikeluarkan oleh Ibnu Hibban dalam kitab Shahihnya no. 1730 dengan penomoran Mawarid azh-Zham\u2019an dan Ibnu Abi Hatim dalam at-Tafsir (2\/104\/2) dari beberapa jalan dari Abdurrahman bin Ibrahim: Telah menceritakan kepada kami Muhammad bin Syu\u2019aib, dari Umar bin Muhammad al-\u2019Umary, dari Hisyam bin Urwah, dari ayahnya, dari Aisyah, dari Nabi shallallahu alaihi wasallam tentang firman-Nya&#8230; dst.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Setelah menjelaskan tentang keshahihan hadits di atas, dan membantah pihak yang menilainya lemah, asy-Syaikh al-Albany berkata:<\/p>\n<p>\ufeed\ufefb \ufeb3\ufef4\ufee4\ufe8e \ufe83\ufee5 \ufe9f\ufee4\ufeec\ufeee\ufead \ufe8d\ufedf\ufecc\ufee0\ufee4\ufe8e\ufe80 \ufecb\ufee0\ufef0 \ufe97\ufed4\ufeb4\ufef4\ufeae \ufe8d\ufef5\ufef3\ufe94 \ufe91\ufee4\ufe8e \ufed3\ufef2 \ufeeb\ufeac\ufe8d \ufe8d\ufedf\ufea4\ufeaa\ufef3\ufe9a \ufe8d\ufedf\ufebc\ufea4\ufef4\ufea2\u060c \ufed3\ufeec\ufeee \ufee3\ufee4\ufe8e \ufef3\ufe86\ufedb\ufeaa \ufebb\ufea4\ufe98\ufeea.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Terlebih jumhur ulama berpendapat tentang penafsiran ayat ini, dengan apa yang terdapat dalam hadits yang shahih ini, sehingga hal itu termasuk hal-hal menguatkan keshahihannya.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Kemudian asy-Syaikh al-Albany menukil perkataan Syaikhul Islam Ibnu Taimiyyah rahimahullah yang disebutkan dalam Majmu\u2019ul Fatawa jilid 3 hlm. 386 setelah Ibnu Taimiyyah menyebutkan ayat di atas:<\/p>\n<p>\ufe83\ufef1: \ufefb \ufe97\ufea0\ufeee\ufead\ufeed\ufe8d \ufed3\ufef2 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufed8\ufeb4\ufee2\u061b \ufeeb\ufedc\ufeac\ufe8d \ufed7\ufe8e\ufedd \ufe8d\ufedf\ufeb4\ufee0\ufed2 \u0648\ufe9f\ufee4\ufeec\ufeee\ufead \ufe8d\ufedf\ufecc\ufee0\ufee4\ufe8e\ufe80. \ufeed\ufec7\ufee6 \ufec3\ufe8e\ufe8b\ufed4\ufe94 \ufee3\ufee6 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufecc\ufee0\ufee4\ufe8e\ufe80 \ufe83\ufee5 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee4\ufeae\ufe8d\ufea9: \ufe83\ufee5 \ufefb \ufe97\ufedc\ufe9c\ufeae \ufecb\ufef4\ufe8e\ufedf\ufedc\ufee2! \ufeed\ufed7\ufe8e\ufedf\ufeee\ufe8d: \ufeeb\ufeac\ufe8d \ufef3\ufeaa\ufedd \ufecb\ufee0\ufef0 \ufeed\ufe9f\ufeee\ufe8f \ufee7\ufed4\ufed8\ufe94 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufeb0\ufeed\ufe9f\ufe94. \ufeed\ufecf\ufee0\u0651\ufec2 \ufe83\ufedb\ufe9c\ufeae\u064f \ufe8d\ufedf\ufecc\ufee0\ufee4\ufe8e\ufe80 \ufee3\ufee6 \ufed7\ufe8e\ufedd \ufeab\ufedf\ufeda \ufedf\ufed4\ufec8\ufe8e\u064b \ufeed\ufee3\ufecc\ufee8\ufef0.<\/p>\n<p>\ufe83\ufee3\ufe8e \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee0\ufed4\ufec6\u061b \ufed3\ufef8\ufee7\ufeea \ufef3\ufed8\ufe8e\ufedd: \ufecb\ufe8e\ufedd \ufef3\ufecc\ufeee\ufedd\u061b \ufe87\ufeab\ufe8d \ufe9f\ufe8e\ufead\u060c \ufeed\ufecb\ufe8e\ufedd \ufef3\ufecc\ufef4\ufede\u061b \ufe87\ufeab\ufe8d \ufe8d\ufed3\ufe98\ufed8\ufeae\u060c \ufeed\ufe83\ufecb\ufe8e\ufedd \ufef3\u064f\ufecc\ufef4\ufede\u061b \ufe87\ufeab\ufe8d \ufedb\ufe9c\ufeae \ufecb\ufef4\ufe8e\ufedf\ufeea\u060c \ufeed\ufeeb\ufeee \ufeb3\ufe92\ufea4\ufe8e\ufee7\ufeea \ufed7\ufe8e\ufedd: \u200f(\ufe97\ufecc\ufeee\ufedf\ufeee\ufe8d) \ufedf\ufee2 \ufef3\ufed8\ufede: \ufe97\u064f\ufecc\ufef4\ufee0\ufeee\ufe8d.<\/p>\n<p>\ufeed\ufe83\ufee3\ufe8e \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee4\ufecc\ufee8\ufef0\u061b \ufed3\ufe88\ufee5 \ufedb\ufe9c\ufeae\ufe93 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee8\ufed4\ufed8\ufe94 \ufeed\ufe8d\ufedf\ufecc\ufef4\ufe8e\ufedd \ufef3\ufea4\ufebc\ufede \ufe91\ufe8e\ufedf\ufe98\ufeb4\ufeae\u0651\u0650\ufef1 \ufedb\ufee4\ufe8e \ufef3\ufea4\ufebc\ufede \ufe91\ufe8e\ufedf\ufeb0\ufeed\ufe9f\ufe8e\ufe95\u060c \ufeed\ufee3\ufeca \ufeeb\ufeac\ufe8d \ufed3\ufed8\ufeaa \ufe83\ufe91\ufe8e\ufea1 \ufee3\ufee4\ufe8e \ufee3\ufee0\ufedc\ufe96 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufef4\ufee4\ufef4\ufee6 \ufee3\ufe8e \ufeb7\ufe8e\ufe80 \ufe8d\ufef9\ufee7\ufeb4\ufe8e\ufee5 \ufe91\ufed0\ufef4\ufeae \ufecb\ufeaa\ufea9\u061b \ufef7\ufee5 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee4\ufee4\ufee0\ufeee\ufedb\ufe8e\ufe95 \ufefb \ufef3\ufea0\ufe90 \ufedf\ufeec\ufee6 \ufed7\ufeb4\ufee2\u064c\u060c \ufeed\ufefb \ufef3\ufeb4\ufe98\ufea4\ufed8\ufed8\ufee6 \ufecb\ufee0\ufef0 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufeae\ufe9f\ufede \ufeed\ufec3\ufe84\u064b&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Maksudnya: agar kalian tidak zhalim dalam pembagian (giliran bermalam, nafkah, dll), demikian pendapat Salaf dan jumhur ulama. Dan sebagian ulama ada yang menyangka bahwa yang dimaksud adalah: agar orang-orang yang menjadi tanggungan kalian tidak bertambah banyak. Dan mereka mengatakan bahwa ini menunjukkan wajibnya menafkahi istri.<\/p>\n<p>Namun, mayoritas ulama menyalahkan pihak yang berpendapat demikian, baik ditinjau dari sisi lafazh maupun maknanya.<\/p>\n<p>Adapun dari sisi lafazh karena kata (\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u2013 \u064a\u064e\u0639\u064f\u0648\u0644) maknanya adalah tidak adil. Sedangkan kata (\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u2013 \u064a\u064e\u0639\u0650\u064a\u0644\u064f) maknanya adalah menjadi miskin. Lalu kata (\u0623\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u2013 \u064a\u064f\u0639\u0650\u064a\u0644\u064f) maknanya adalah bertambah orang-orang yang menjadi tanggungannya. Sementara Allah Subhanahu berfirman: (\u062a\u064e\u0639\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0627) dan tidak berfirman: (\u062a\u064f\u0639\u0650\u064a\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0627).<\/p>\n<p>Adapun kesalahnya ketika ditinjau dari sisi makna, yaitu: karena banyaknya nafkah dan tanggungan bisa terjadi dengan menggauli budak, sebagaimana bisa dengan banyak istri, padahal walaupun dengan menggauli budak bisa menyebabkan bertambahnya tanggungan, Allah membolehkan untuk menggauli budak sesuai yang diinginkan oleh seseorang tanpa batas, karena budak-budak wanita tidak wajib diberi pembagian (giliran bermalam) dan mereka tidak memiliki hak untuk digauli oleh tuannya&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Lalu asy-Syaikh al-Albany berkata mengakhiri penjelasan hadits di atas:<\/p>\n<p>\ufeed\ufee7\ufed8\ufede \ufe8d\ufedf\ufea4\ufe8e\ufed3\ufec6 \ufe8d\ufe91\ufee6 \ufedb\ufe9c\ufef4\ufeae \ufea7\ufefc\ufebb\ufe94 \ufeeb\ufeac\ufe8d\u060c \ufeed\ufed7\ufe8e\ufedd: \ufeed\ufe8d\ufedf\ufebc\ufea4\ufef4\ufea2 \ufed7\ufeee\ufedd \ufe8d\ufedf\ufea0\ufee4\ufeec\ufeee\ufead.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Al-Hafizh Ibnu Katsir menukil kesimpulan masalah ini, dan beliau mengatakan, &#8220;Dan pendapat yang benar adalah perkataan jumhur.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Asy-Syaikh Abdurrahman as-Sa&#8217;dy rahimahullah berkata dalam tafsirnya hlm. 189-190:<\/p>\n<p>\ufe83\ufef1: \ufee3\u064e\ufee6\u0652 \ufe83\ufea3\ufe90 \ufe83\ufee5 \ufef3\ufe84\ufea7\ufeac \ufe8d\ufe9b\ufee8\ufe98\ufef4\ufee6 \ufed3\ufee0\ufef4\ufed4\ufecc\ufede\u060c \ufe83\ufeed \ufe9b\ufefc\ufe9b\ufe8e\u064b \ufed3\ufee0\ufef4\ufed4\ufecc\ufede\u060c \ufe83\ufeed \ufe83\ufead\ufe91\ufecc\ufe8e\u064b \ufed3\ufee0\ufef4\ufed4\ufecc\ufede\u060c \ufeed\ufefb \ufef3\ufeb0\ufef3\ufeaa \ufecb\ufee0\ufef4\ufeec\ufe8e\u061b \ufef7\ufee5 \ufe8d\ufef5\ufef3\ufe94 \ufeb3\ufef4\ufed8\ufe96 \ufedf\ufe92\ufef4\ufe8e\ufee5 \ufe8d\ufefb\ufee3\ufe98\ufee8\ufe8e\ufee5\u060c \ufed3\ufefc \ufef3\ufea0\ufeee\ufeaf \ufe8d\ufedf\ufeb0\ufef3\ufe8e\ufea9\ufe93 \ufecb\ufee0\ufef0 \ufecf\ufef4\ufeae \ufee3\ufe8e \ufeb3\ufee4\ufef0 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee0\ufeea \ufe97\ufecc\ufe8e\ufedf\ufef0 \ufe87\ufe9f\ufee4\ufe8e\ufecb\ufe8e\u064b\u061b \ufeed\ufeab\ufedf\ufeda \ufef7\ufee5 \ufe8d\ufedf\ufeae\ufe9f\ufede \ufed7\ufeaa \ufefb \ufe97\ufee8\ufeaa\ufed3\ufeca \ufeb7\ufeec\ufeee\ufe97\ufeea \ufe91\ufe8e\ufedf\ufeee\ufe8d\ufea3\ufeaa\ufe93\u060c \ufed3\ufe84\ufe91\ufef4\ufea2 \ufedf\ufeea \ufeed\ufe8d\ufea3\ufeaa\ufe93 \ufe91\ufecc\ufeaa \ufeed\ufe8d\ufea3\ufeaa\ufe93\u060c \ufea3\ufe98\ufef0 \ufef3\ufe92\ufee0\ufece \ufe83\ufead\ufe91\ufecc\ufe8e\u064b\u061b \ufef7\ufee5 \ufed3\ufef2 \ufe8d\ufef7\ufead\ufe91\ufeca \ufecf\ufee8\ufef4\ufe94 \ufedf\ufedc\ufede \ufe83\ufea3\ufeaa \ufe87\ufefb \ufee3\ufe8e \ufee7\ufeaa\ufead\u060c \ufeed\ufee3\ufeca \ufeeb\ufeac\ufe8d \ufed3\ufe88\ufee7\ufee4\ufe8e \ufef3\ufe92\ufe8e\ufea1 \ufedf\ufeea \ufeab\ufedf\ufeda \ufe87\ufeab\ufe8d \ufe83\ufee3\u0650\ufee6 \ufecb\ufee0\ufef0 \ufee7\ufed4\ufeb4\ufeea \ufe8d\ufedf\ufea0\ufeee\ufead 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\ufe8d\ufedf\ufecc\ufe92\ufeaa.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Maksudnya: siapa yang ingin menikahi dua wanita silahkan, atau tiga silahkan, atau empat silahkan, dan tidak boleh lebih, karena ayat ini disebutkan untuk menjelaskan karunia yang Allah berikan, sehingga tidak boleh melebihi selain yang Allah sebutkan, dan ini merupakan ijma\u2019 para ulama. Dan hal itu karena seorang pria terkadang syahwatnya tidak tercukupi dengan satu istri saja, sehingga diperbolehkan untuknya menambah satu demi satu hingga empat, karena empat istri sudah mencukupi setiap orang kecuali beberapa orang saja.<\/p>\n<p>Namun demikian hal itu hanyalah diperbolehkan bagi orang yang yakin dirinya tidak akan berbuat yang tidak adil dan zhalim, serta yakin akan memenuhi hak-hak mereka.<\/p>\n<p>Jadi, jika dia mengkhawatirkan sebagian dari hal ini maka hendaklah dia membatasi dengan satu istri saja, atau dengan menggauli budak wanita yang dia miliki, karena tidak wajib atasnya untuk untuk memberi pembagian (giliran bermalam, nafkah, dll) untuk budak wanita.<\/p>\n<p>Firman-Nya (\ufeab\u064e\ufedf\u0650\ufeda) maksudnya: mencukupkan diri dengan satu istri, atau dengan menggauli budak wanita yang dimiliki, akibatnya adalah:<\/p>\n<p>(\ufe83\u064e\ufea9\u0652\ufee7\u064e\ufef0 \ufe83\u064e\ufefb \ufe97\u064e\ufecc\u064f\ufeee\ufedf\u064f\ufeee\ufe8d)<\/p>\n<p>Yaitu: agar kalian tidak berbuat zhalim.<\/p>\n<p>Dan dalam makna ayat ini terkandung bahwa perbuatan seorang hamba yang menghadapkan dirinya pada perkara yang dikhawatirkan akan menimbulkan ketidakadilan dan kezhaliman serta tidak mampu menunaikan kewajiban \u2014walaupun perkara tersebut mubah\u2014 adalah perkara yang tidak sepantasnya dia hadapi, bahkan hendaknya dia tetap mengutamakan kelapangan dan keselamatan, karena sesungguhnya keselamatan itu adalah sebaik-baik yang diberikan kepada seorang hamba.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>MAKNA YANG BENAR TENTANG AYAT POLIGAMI Allah Ta\u2019ala berfirman: \ufed3\u064e\ufe8e\ufee7\u0652\ufedc\u0650\ufea4\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufe8d \ufee3\u064e\ufe8e \ufec3\u064e\ufe8e\ufe8f\u064e \ufedf\u064e\ufedc\u064f\ufee2\u0652 \ufee3\u0650\ufee6\u064e \ufe8d\ufedf\ufee8\u0651\u0650\ufeb4\u064e\ufe8e\ufe80\u0650 \ufee3\u064e\ufe9c\u0652\ufee8\u064e\ufef0 \ufeed\u064e\ufe9b\u064f\ufee0\u064e\ufe8e\ufe99\u064e \ufeed\u064e\ufead\u064f\ufe91\u064e\ufe8e\ufec9\u064e \ufed3\u064e\ufe88\u0650\ufee5\u0652 \ufea7\u0650\ufed4\u0652\ufe98\u064f\ufee2\u0652 \ufe83\u064e\ufedf\u0651\u064e\ufe8e \ufe97\u064e\ufecc\u0652\ufeaa\u0650\ufedf\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufe8d \ufed3\u064e\ufeee\u064e\ufe8d\ufea3\u0650\ufeaa\u064e\ufe93\u064b \ufe83\u064e\ufeed\u0652 \ufee3\u064e\ufe8e \ufee3\u064e\ufee0\u064e\ufedc\u064e\ufe96\u0652 \ufe83\u064e\ufef3\u0652\ufee4\u064e\ufe8e\ufee7\u064f\ufedc\u064f\ufee2\u0652 \ufeab\u064e\ufedf\u0650\ufeda\u064e \ufe83\u064e\ufea9\u0652\ufee7\u064e\ufef0 \ufe83\u064e\ufedf\u0651\u064e\ufe8e \ufe97\u064e\ufecc\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufedf\u064f\ufeee\u0652\ufe8d. \u201cNikahilah wanita-wanita yang kalian senangi sebanyak dua, atau tiga, atau empat. 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