{"id":13942,"date":"2016-02-23T06:04:00","date_gmt":"2016-02-22T23:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/?p=13942"},"modified":"2016-03-04T05:12:14","modified_gmt":"2016-03-03T22:12:14","slug":"silaturrahim-ditentukan-sesuai-dengan-kebiasaan-manusia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/?p=13942","title":{"rendered":"SILATURRAHIM DITENTUKAN SESUAI DENGAN KEBIASAAN MANUSIA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>SILATURRAHIM DITENTUKAN SESUAI DENGAN KEBIASAAN MANUSIA<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><em>Asy Syaikh Muhammad bin Shalih al Utsaimin rahimahullah<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pertanyaan:<\/strong> <span style=\"color: #0000ff\">Apakah silaturrahim memiliki batasan waktu tertentu?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Jawaban:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Wajib kita mengetahui suatu kaedah yang sangat berguna bagi penuntut ilmu dan selain penuntut ilmu, yaitu apabila Allah menyebutkan tentang suatu hal dan tidak membatasinya, maka perkaranya kembali kepada adat dan kebiasaan manusia. Silaturrahim datang dalam al-Qur&#8217;an dan sunnah dengan tanpa pembatasan, sehingga perkaranya kembali kepada adat kebiasaan manusia. Dan adat kebiasaan manusia tentu berbeda-beda selaras dengan perbedaan zaman, negeri, dan keadaan.<\/p>\n<p>Misal: Pada sebagian daerah engkau harus mengunjungi kerabatmu setiap bulan. Bila engkau tidak melakukannya berarti engkau telah memutus hubungan silaturrahim. Demikian juga pada sebagian suku (kabilah), pada sebagian masa, dan sebagian keadaan tertentu. Manusia butuh untuk tetap saling berhubungan dan seseorang tidak meninggalkan yang lainnya.<br \/>\nNamun pada sebagian keadaan tidaklah demikian. Demikian juga kerabat terkadang sakit, butuh untuk berkali-kali dikunjungi. Atau terkadang dia itu fakir yang membutuhkan bantuan materi. Kesimpulannya, selama silaturrahim itu tidak ada batasan ketentuannya, tidak di dalam al-Qur&#8217;an, tidak pula di dalam sunnah, maka urusannya dikembalikan kepada kebiasaan manusia.<br \/>\nDi zaman sekarang ini, kita dapat menjalin hubungan silaturrahim kepada kerabat dengan menggunakan telepon, meskipun engkau menghubunginya setiap hari. Namun suatu hal yang telah diketahui bila engkau menghubunginya setiap hari tentu hal ini akan membuatnya jenuh. Kalau engkau menjadikannya setiap pekan sekali, setengah bulan sekali, atau dua bulan sekali sesuai dengan keadaan, tentunya hal ini akan lebih baik. Kemudian kerabat juga berbeda-beda tingkat kekerabatannya, maksudnya anak paman tentu tidaklah sama dengan saudara (kandung).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sumber: <span style=\"color: #ff0000\">Silsilatu Liqa&#8217;atil babil Maftuh &gt; Liqa&#8217;ul Babil Maftuh (126)<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Alih Bahasa : Syabab Forum Salafy<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br \/>\n\u0635\u0644\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u0645 \u062a\u062d\u062f\u062f \u0628\u0645\u0627 \u062a\u0639\u0627\u0631\u0641 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0627\u0633<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">\u0627\u0644\u0633\u0624\u0627\u0644: \u0647\u0644 \u0644\u0635\u0644\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u0645 \u062d\u062f \u0628\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0633\u0628\u0629 \u0644\u0644\u0645\u062f\u0629\u061f<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">\u0627\u0644\u062c\u0648\u0627\u0628: \u064a\u062c\u0628 \u0623\u0646 \u0646\u0639\u0644\u0645 \u0642\u0627\u0639\u062f\u0629 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Utsaimin rahimahullah Pertanyaan: Apakah silaturrahim memiliki batasan waktu tertentu? Jawaban: Wajib kita mengetahui suatu kaedah yang sangat berguna bagi penuntut ilmu dan selain penuntut ilmu, yaitu apabila Allah menyebutkan tentang suatu hal dan tidak membatasinya, maka perkaranya kembali kepada adat dan kebiasaan manusia. 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