{"id":11091,"date":"2015-05-16T12:24:46","date_gmt":"2015-05-16T04:24:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/?p=11091"},"modified":"2015-05-17T05:35:44","modified_gmt":"2015-05-16T21:35:44","slug":"bolehkah-seorang-istri-memboikot-suaminya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/?p=11091","title":{"rendered":"Bolehkah Seorang Istri Memboikot Suaminya"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>BOLEHKAH SEORANG ISTRI MEMBOIKOT SUAMINYA<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Asy Syaikh Ubaid bin Abdillah al Jabiry<\/span><\/em> <em><span style=\"color: #800000;\"> \u062d\u0641\u0638\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pertanyaan: <\/strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Seorang wanita dari Maroko bertanya: bolehkah saya memboikot suami saya ketika terjadi sebuah kesalahpahaman antara kami berdua, dalam artian saya tidak mengajaknya bicara dan melarang dia menyentuh saya?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Jawaban:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Wanita seperti ini miskin. . .<\/p>\n<p>Kenapa wahai Anakku. . ? ?<\/p>\n<p>Kami tidak mengetahui ada satu orang pun wanita dari kalangan sahabat dan yang setelahnya melakukan seperti ini.<\/p>\n<p>Dan yang terbaik yang bisa aku nasihatkan kepada anda dan suami anda adalah:<\/p>\n<p>Wajib atas kalian berdua untuk meyakini bahwasanya masing-masing kalian adalah amanah antara satu sama lain yang wajib atas masing-masing menunaikan kewajibannya dan jangan ada yang melalaikan kewajibannya.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ini yang pertama.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Yang kedua, aku wasiatkan agar kalian saling pengertian dan saling memaafkan jika ada kekurangan pada pasangannya.<\/p>\n<p>Jika wanita yang memiliki kekurangan, maka suaminya menasihati sesuai kemampuannya dan memaafkannya.<\/p>\n<p>Dan jika suami memiliki kekurangan, maka istri juga memaafkan dan menasihati. Kesempurnaan hanya milik Allah.<\/p>\n<p>Hati-hati kalian dari tipu daya syaithon.\u00a0<span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">Dan aku ingatkan dengan ayat:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dan katakanlah kepada hamba-hambaKu agar mereka mengucapkan ucapan yang paling baik dikarenakan syaithon mencari kesempatan untuk menghasut antara mereka*dan sesungguhnya syaithon musuh yang nyata bagi manusia&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Maka berhati-hatilah anda dan suami anda dari hasutan syaithon. 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Jawaban: Wanita seperti ini miskin. . . Kenapa wahai Anakku. . ? 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