{"id":10853,"date":"2015-05-04T15:44:21","date_gmt":"2015-05-04T07:44:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/?p=10853"},"modified":"2015-05-07T05:02:24","modified_gmt":"2015-05-06T21:02:24","slug":"nasehat-dalam-menyikapi-orang-tua-yang-keras-terhadap-anak-yang-istiqamah-di-atas-manhaj-salaf","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/?p=10853","title":{"rendered":"Nasehat Dalam Menyikapi Orang Tua Yang Keras Terhadap Anak Yang Istiqomah Di Atas Manhaj Salaf"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>NASEHAT DALAM MENYIKAPI ORANG TUA YANG KERAS TERHADAP ANAK YANG ISTIQOMAH DI ATAS MANHAJ SALAF<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><em><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">Asy Syaikh Ubaid bin Abdillah al Jabiry \u062d\u0641\u0638\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">Pertanyaan: <\/span><\/strong><span style=\"line-height: 1.5; color: #0000ff;\">Semoga Allah memberkahi anda, syaikh kami. Ada yang bertanya: Ibu saya mengusir saya dari rumah dan tidak mau berbicara dengan saya, dikarenakan keistiqomahan saya. Bagaimana saya bermuamalah dengannya?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">Jawaban:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">Wahai anakku, perkara ini tidak terlepas dari dua keadaan:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">Bisa jadi sikap anda kepada ibu anda yang kasar, dan ketika anda berbicara dengan dia, anda memposisikanya seperti pelaku maksiat dan sesat. Dan kalau ini sebabnya, maka benahilah diri anda dan berlemah lembutlah ketika berbicara dengannya, dan berusahalah untuk mendapatkan simpatiknya dan kecintaannya.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">Keadaan kedua, ibu anda jahil dan tenggelam dalam kemaksiatan dan menginginkan anda berpaling dari ketaatan. Maka jangan taati dia dalam perkara ini, dikarenakan telah diketahui dari kaidah yang nashnya (tidak ada ketaatan kepada makhluk dalam rangka bermaksiat kepada Sang Pencipta). Dan Allah akan memberikan jalan keluar kepadamu. Carilah tempat lain dan tetap sambung hubungan dengan ibu anda. Semoga Allah melembutkan hatinya untuk menerima anda.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sumber:<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/ar.miraath.net\/fatwah\/11280\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/ar.miraath.net\/fatwah\/11280<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">Alihbahasa : <strong>Syabab Forum Salafy<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>***\u00a0\u00a0 ***<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u0627\u0644\u0633\u0624\u0627\u0644:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u00a0\u0628\u0627\u0631\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0641\u064a\u0643\u0645 \u0634\u064a\u062e\u0646\u0627\u061b \u064a\u0642\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0627\u0626\u0644:\u00a0 \u0623\u0645\u064a \u0623\u062e\u0631\u062c\u062a\u0646\u064a \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0628\u064a\u062a \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u062a\u0631\u064a\u062f \u0623\u0646 \u062a\u062a\u0643\u0644\u0645 \u0645\u0639\u064a \u0644\u0623\u062c\u0644 \u0627\u0633\u062a\u0642\u0627\u0645\u062a\u064a\u060c \u0641\u0643\u064a\u0641 \u0623\u062a\u0639\u0627\u0645\u0644 \u0645\u0639\u0647\u0627\u061f<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u0627\u0644\u062c\u0648\u0627\u0628:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u064a\u0627 \u0628\u0646\u064a \u0647\u0630\u0627 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062e\u0644\u0648 \u0645\u0646 \u062d\u0627\u0644\u064a\u0646:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u00a0\u0625\u0645\u0627 \u0623\u0646\u0643 \u0623\u0646\u062a \u0643\u0646\u062a \u062a\u0634\u062f \u0648\u062a\u062e\u0627\u0637\u0628\u0647\u0627 \u062e\u0637\u0627\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0627\u0635\u064a\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0636\u0622\u0644\u0629\u060c \u0641\u0625\u0646 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0647\u0630\u0627 \u0641\u0623\u0635\u0644\u0650\u062d \u0646\u0641\u0633\u0643\u060c \u0648\u0623\u0644\u0650\u0646 \u0644\u0647\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u062f\u064a\u062b\u060c \u0648\u062d\u0627\u0648\u0644 \u0643\u0633\u0628 \u0645\u0648\u062f\u0651\u062a\u0647\u0627 \u0648\u0645\u062d\u0628\u0651\u062a\u0647\u0627.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u0627\u0644\u062d\u0627\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u062b\u0627\u0646\u064a: \u0623\u0646 \u062a\u0643\u0648\u0646 \u0623\u0645\u0643 \u062c\u0627\u0647\u0650\u0644\u0629\u060c \u0645\u0639\u0627\u0646\u062f\u0629 \u0645\u064f\u0644\u062c\u0644\u0650\u062c\u0629 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0639\u0635\u064a\u0629\u060c \u0648\u062a\u0631\u064a\u062f \u0645\u0646\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u0627\u0646\u0641\u0644\u0627\u062a \u0623\u0648 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0641\u0644\u062a\u061b \u0641\u0647\u0630\u0647 \u0644\u0627 \u0637\u0627\u0639\u0629 \u0644\u0647\u0627\u060c \u0644\u0623\u0646\u0647 \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0642\u0648\u0627\u0639\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0642\u0631\u0631\u0629 \u0646\u0635\u0651\u064b\u0627 (\u0644\u0627 \u0637\u064e\u0627\u0639\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0644\u0650\u0645\u064e\u062e\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0642\u064d \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0645\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0635\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0629\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062e\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u0642\u0650 )\u060c \u0648\u0633\u064a\u0647\u064a\u0651\u0650\u0626 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0644\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u064e\u062e\u0652\u0631\u062c\u060c \u0627\u0628\u062d\u062b \u0639\u0646 \u0633\u0643\u0646 \u0648\u0643\u0646 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0635\u0650\u0644\u0651\u0629 \u0628\u0647\u0627\u060c \u0644\u0639\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u064a\u064f\u0644\u064a\u0651\u0646 \u0642\u0644\u0628\u0647\u0627 \u0644\u0643.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NASEHAT DALAM MENYIKAPI ORANG TUA YANG KERAS TERHADAP ANAK YANG ISTIQOMAH DI ATAS MANHAJ SALAF Asy Syaikh Ubaid bin Abdillah al Jabiry \u062d\u0641\u0638\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 Pertanyaan: Semoga Allah memberkahi anda, syaikh kami. Ada yang bertanya: Ibu saya mengusir saya dari rumah dan tidak mau berbicara dengan saya, dikarenakan keistiqomahan saya. Bagaimana saya bermuamalah dengannya?\u00a0 Jawaban: Wahai [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10156,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"audio","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[56],"tags":[2510,2499],"class_list":["post-10853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-audio","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fatwa","tag-nasehat-dalam-menyikapi-orang-tua-yang-keras-terhadap-anak-yang-istiqomah-di-atas-manhaj-salaf","tag-nasehatdalammenyikapiorangtuayangkeraspadaanakyangistiqamah","post_format-post-format-audio"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10853","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10853"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10853\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/10156"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10853"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10853"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forumsalafy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10853"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}